Cred ca numai atunci cand te bucuri impreuna cu cineva de un lucru, oricare ar fi acela, bucuria este deplina. Spun asta din prisma propriei mele experiente, gandindu-ma la momentul cand Cosmin a aflat ca vom avea o fetita. Se intampla aproape de jumatatea lui decembrie, anul trecut. Nu am cum sa uit momentele acelea. :)
In noaptea de 10 spre 11 decembrie, m-am trezit pe la 4 dimineata din cauza unui junghi in partea stanga jos. Pe vremea aceea, inca mai puteam sa dorm pe burta 😊! Mi-am pus mana in locul dureros si, chiar inainte sa adorm la loc, am simtit un „pestisor”, care parca facuse o tumba in apa. Am stiut din primul moment ca este bebelusul. Nu stiu exact cum sa explic, dar a fost cu totul altceva decat tot ce simtisem pana in acel moment, in viata mea.
A doua zi de dimineata am plecat spre Iasi cu avionul, cu treburi si acolo am primit si vestea: rezultatele testului Panorama ne anuntau ca puiul nostru este sanatos si ne dezvaluiau si sexul: „FEMALE” scria acolo.
Am fost extraordinar de surprinsa, dar si fericita 😊! Spun surprinsa pentru ca eu credeam ca voi avea un baietel, din cauza unui vis pe care-l avusesem in urma cu cateva luni. Ardeam de nerabdare sa-i dau vestea lui Cosmin, asa ca l-am sunat imediat. Nu a raspuns, pentru ca era intr-o intalnire, iar eu am avut astfel timp sa ma mai linistesc si sa ma gandesc. O asemenea veste nu poate fi data la telefon! As fi vrut sa-l pot privi, sa citesc bucuria in ochii lui, sa traiesc alaturi de el emotia de a sti ca vom fi parintii unei fetite. La telefon nu as fi putut sa am parte de toate acestea, asa ca am amanat sa-i spun pentru a doua zi, cand urma sa ma intorc la Bucuresti.
Pe drumul spre casa, m-am tot gandit cum sa-l anunt pe Cosmin si pana la urma am ales sa fac un gest care sa vorbeasca de la sine. In bradul abia impodobit, am agatat o rochita roz pal. I-am spus lui Cosmin ca am o surpriza, l-am pus sa inchida ochii si l-am condus pana la brad. Nu o sa uit niciodata expresia de pe fata lui, in acele momente. Uimire, entuziasm, emotie, toate se invalmaseau in sufletul lui: „Asta inseamna ca avem FETITA!” a strigat.
Culmea e ca niciodata nu a spus clar ce anume isi doreste, dar, dupa cat de coplesit a fost de veste, e usor de dedus! Surpriza mi-a iesit perfect! Iar filmarea in care l-am surprins va fi o frumoasa surpriza pentru fetita noastra la majorat!
Tu ai trecut printr-o astfel de experienta? Cum ai facut anuntul?
EN (google translate)
I think only when you are enjoying with one thing, whatever it is, joy is full. I say this from the perspective of my own experience, thinking about when Cosmin found out we had a little girl. It happened almost half of December last year. I can not forget those moments. :)
On the night of December 10 to 11, I woke up at 4am because of a slaughter on the bottom left. At that time, I could still sleep on my belly 😊! I put my hand in the painful place, and even before I fell asleep I felt a “fishpot” that seemed to have made a tumble in the water. I knew from the first moment he was the baby. I do not know exactly how to explain it, but it was quite different from everything I felt until that moment in my life.
The next morning I went to Iasi with the plane, and there I received the news: the results of the Panorama test announced that our chicken was healthy and revealed the sex: “FEMALE” was written there.
I was extraordinarily surprised, but happy 😊! I’m surprised because I thought I would have a baby boy because of a dream I had a few months ago. I was eager to give him the news of Cosmin, so I called him right away. He did not answer, because he was in a meeting, and I had time to calm down and think. Such news can not be given on the phone! I would have liked to look at him, read the joy in his eyes, live with him the excitement of knowing that we would be the parents of a little girl. On my phone I could not have all of this, so I delayed to tell him the next day when I was going back to Bucharest.
On the way home, I’ve been thinking about how to announce Cosmin and eventually I choose to make a gesture that speaks for itself. In the barely adorned tree, I hung a pale pink dress. I told Cosmin that I had a surprise, I put his eyes shut and led him to the fir tree. I will never forget the expression on his face in those moments. Amazement, excitement, excitement, all of them were embarrassed in his soul: “That means we have the FEET!” He shouted.
The culmination is that he has never said clearly what he wants, but, how overwhelmed he has been, it’s easy to deduce! Surprise came out perfectly! And the shooting we’ve been surprised will be a beautiful surprise for our little girl in the bigger!
Have you gone through such an experience? How did you make the announcement?