Cand mi s-a confirmat ca sunt insarcinata, bineinteles ca m-am gandit cum va fi, mai ales primul trimestru, pe care urma sa il traversez imediat. Imaginatia imi era alimentata de toate povestile pe care le auzisem de-a lungul timpului despre pataniilor multor femei, asa ca aveam si eu asteptarile mele. Insa, realitatea nu a confirmat nimic din toate acestea! Se pare ca fetita mea s-a acomodat imediat in noua ei „casuta” asa incat primul trimestru a fost chiar usor!
Nu am avut niciun fel de simptome ciudate, nici gand de pofte, greturi sau stari de oboseala! Mi s-a parut chiar ciudat, insa experienta mea de viitoare mama asa a fost – in primul trimestru propriu-zis nici nu am simtit ca sunt insarcinata. Iti dai seama ca lucrul acesta m-a surprins foarte placut, cu atat mai mult cu cat am avut alte asteptari. Credeam ca o sa zac la pat trei luni, ca nu voi putea merge la repetitii, adio gatit si calatorii. Cu alte cuvinte, ca nu voi putea face mai nimic. Insa, vad ca fata mea are de gand sa-si vada de treaba si sta cuminte acolo. De fapt, acesta a fost si avantajul ca nu am avut nicio stare mai deosebita (in sensul rau al cuvantului) in primul trimestru: am putut sa-mi vad linistita de programul meu destul de aglomerat din acea perioada. A fost insa si un dezavantaj, acela ca nu prea avea informatii despre bebelusul nostru. Situatia s-a remediat odata cu primele seturi de analize. Am facut in primul rand ecografia de confirmare a sarcinii si analize de sange. In cea de-a 10-a saptamana am facut testul Panorama. Testul acesta este noninvaziv (iti ia sange) si laboratorul trimite proba in America pentru rezultat. Aceasta analiza are capacitatea de a separa ADN-ul fatului de cel al mamei si astfel afli pana in saptamana a 14-a daca exista riscuri de boli genetice, dar afli cu o precizie de 99% si sexul copilului. Revin cu aceasta poveste in curand. :)
Morfologia din trimestrul intai am facut-o la doctorul Herghelegiu, iar pentru ca am facut testul Panorama, nu mi s-a mai recomandat sa fac si bitestul (care calculeaza riscul de anomalii cromozomiale). Triplul test (care depisteaza defectele de tub neural) l-am facut in saptamana a 17-a!
Nu am stresat medicul, nu am fost la ecografii decat atunci cand era cazul si cel mai important lucru a fost ca am invatat sa ma conectez la puiul meu.
In tot acest prim trimestru m-am tot gandit la niste lucruri care par diametral opuse – la miracolul care este sarcina, dar și la firescul ei.
Tu ce crezi despre evenimentul asteptarii unui copil?
EN: (google translate)
When I was confirmed that I was pregnant, of course I thought how it would be, especially the first trimester I was going to cross immediately. My imagination was fed by all the stories I had heard over the years about many women’s patches, so I had my expectations. But the reality has not confirmed anything of all! It seems that my little girl was immediately accommodated in her new “house” so the first quarter was easy!
I did not have any strange symptoms, nor thought of lusts, nausea, or tiredness! It seemed strange to me, but my mother’s experience was so – in the first quarter I actually did not feel I was pregnant. You realize this surprised me very pleasantly, especially since I had other expectations. I thought I’d be in bed for three months, that I could not go to rehearsals, cook for good and travelers. In other words, I can not do anything else. But I see my girl is going to see the job and stay there. In fact, this was also the advantage that I had no special situation (in the sense of bad word) in the first quarter: I was able to see the quiet of my busy schedule at that time. But it was also a disadvantage that she had little information about our baby. The situation was resolved with the first sets of analyzes. I made the ultrasound of pregnancy confirmation and blood tests first. In the 10th week I did the Panorama test. This test is non-invasive (it takes blood) and the laboratory sends the test to America for the result. This analysis has the ability to separate the fetus DNA from that of the mother and thus you can find out until the 14th week if there are risks of genetic diseases, but you are 99% accurate and the child’s sex. I’m coming back with this story soon. :)
Morphology from the first trimester I did to Dr. Herghelegiu, and because I did the Panorama test, I was not recommended to do the bit (which calculates the risk of chromosomal abnormalities). The triple test (which detects neural tube defects) I did at week 17!
I did not stress the doctor, I was not on the ultrasounds when it was the case and the most important thing was that I learned to connect to my baby.
Throughout this first quarter, I’ve been thinking of things that seem to be diametrically opposed – to the miracle that is the task, but also to her natural.
What do you think about a child’s expectation event?